so, I'm pretty convinced that the main issue is 2 fold. The bulb is too high of a wattage, so I need to find a 35watt bulb. Also, with the engine off there is 12.4 volts at the battery and 10.8 at the headlight. With the engine running and revved up, got over 12 volts at the headlight. It think the loss is at the headlight switch. I took it partially apart and poked around with my multimeter and got 11.8 on one side of the switch and 10.8 on the other. So, I'll give that a good cleaning. Hopefully with these 2 things I'll have a charging system that charges with the headlight on. Also replace the turn signal flasher with a new universal one. Turn signals work all the time now.